I have decided to do a blog about how much ILF means to me and what it supports me to do. This approach might seem egotistical but sometimes the personal can be the political.
i am one of the group 1 people which means I received ILF in 1988 after meeting Jane Campbell the champion of independent living. I will always remember hearing her speak at a big conference in London when she said “who wants to spend thirty minutes putting ones socks on when there are so many more exciting things to do” she was of course referring to using the support of her PA.
I was introduced to ILF when my partner left me after 20 years. Nothing unusual in this you might say but I had no idea anything was wrong. This was made even worse by people continually telling me they didn’t believe me – probably because we were both crips and to most people this makes us a perfect match!
up till this time in my life I was not political but when I learnt first hand how bad services were for disabled people this soon changed.starting by joining small local groups to chairing national and European committees my politics grew from strength to strength – in disability politics I’m talking about.
Starting with my first day using social services home care, district nurses and the dreaded bath nurse it soon became very clear that this was not living it was merely just existing.